Sarah Cook Ruggera, M.F.T.
Marriage and Family Therapist

Helping People Who Ask The Question....
"Should I Stay or
Should I Go?"

Sarah Cook Ruggera
5230 Carroll Canyon Road
Suite 116
San Diego CA 92121
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License MFC 31998

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Did you just find out your Spouse/Partner is having an affair?
Are you shocked and overwhelmed with a range of emotions?
Feeling angry and a sense of panic at the same time?
Can couples survive an affair?
Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

Upset couple

The aftermath of finding out the love of your life has been cheating on you shatters the core of your existence leaving you with feelings of betrayal, rejection, fear, loss of trust, grief, guilt and anger. It’s a deathblow to your sense of self and leaves you overwhelmed with what to do next. You’re in allot of pain and confusion right now as you’ve experienced a violation in trust as a result of an affair. This trauma isn’t necessarily the breakdown of your relationship but can be the transformation of a newly created one with the guidance of an Infidelity Specialist who can reconstruct your relationship after one partner has been unfaithful.

You don’t have to suffer through this alone. I help explain the sources of infidelity and offer innovative, sound and sensible guidelines for mending your relationship. For those of you who are going through the hurt and betrayal of infidelity I am able to help you cope with the raging emotions, make a thoughtful decision about your future, and if you choose to recommit, reclaim a life together. Couples can survive infidelity, provided that both partners are willing to look honestly at themselves and at each other and acquire the skills they need to help themselves through such a shattering crisis.

If you’re struggling with wondering what to do next and asking yourself the question…..”Should I Stay Or Should I Go?,” please call me at (858) 735­1139. I can help you with options to make the right decision for you and your family.