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Signs Your Husband May Be Having An Affair

Signs Your Husband May Be Having An Affair.  Are you observing strange behavior from your husband that keeps you up at night wondering if he’s cheating on you?  Your intuition tells you that something just isn’t right.  But on the surface things seems fine.  You’re relatively happy and content.  He tells you that he loves you.  Sex is fine.  He comes home every night and still calls you from work.  But you see him sending and receiving text and emails at strange hours of the night and weekends.  He works later than usual when at home and seems distracted at times.  He hides his cell phone when he didn’t in the past.  If you’re not sure whether you’re just being jealous or something really is going on, here are some signs your husband may be having an affair:

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1.   Unexplained time away.

2.   Cheated in the past.

3.   Suddenly shaving, smelling of nice cologne and dressing bettter.

4.   Hides his cell phone.

5.   Secret communication with other people.

6.   Flirt with girls.

 

7.   He has a New Favorite or Special Item he wears when he goes to a particular place.  Could be something given to him by his girlfriend.

8.   Feedback others give about him.

9.   Losing interest in your relationship.

10.  Bored and preoccupied.

11.  Cheating in other areas of his life.

12.  Are you wondering if he’s cheating?

13.  Evidence of cheating.

Of course none of these signs are proof that your husband is cheating or having an affair.  But the signs are anxiety provoking to say the least.  I recommend having an honest discussion with him about your observations and your feelings associated with them.  Share your feeling of insecurity.  If he has nothing to hide he will be open to a dialogue about your concerns.  If the information becomes too difficult to discuss talking to a Marriage Counselor who specializes in Infidelity and Affairs could help neutralize the topic and help you both move forward where you can become more comfortable talking about what needs to be said.

I have worked with Couples married or not married who have experienced the devastation of Infidelity.  The relationship does not have to end because an affair occurred.  Knowing how to survive an affair takes time and commitment to the process of recovery to make the outcome successful.

Please call me at (858) 735-1139 if you would like more information regarding your partner possibly having an affair and how to manage your situation.