Sex on the Beach Isn't just a Cocktail for my Couples

Do You Have Sexual Intelligence?

Do You Have Sexual Intelligence?  There’s a difference between knowing how to have sex and having intelligence about sex.  Some people don’t understand either.  As a Marriage Counselor, my couples want sex to be natural and spontaneous.  All the planets have to align before wanting to engage in sex.  Many don’t care for the idea … Read more

Why Some Women Wear High Heels

Why Some Women Wear High Heels.  Last month I wrote about why some women wear red lipstick.  Red lipstick and wearing high heels can imply a sexual connotation to some people.  But can wearing high heels be an implicit invitation to sex?  In an article entitled, “The Psychology of High Heels,” by Michael Castleman, he … Read more

Are You Getting The Sex You Want?

Getting the sex you want.  Are You Getting The Sex You Want?  Over the past 20 years while working with couples I have observed couples having a greater likelihood of staying together when they improve their sexual communication skills.  Learning to communicate about sex can help you become a better lover and deepen the passion … Read more