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Different Kinds Of Affairs

Different Kinds Of Affairs.  As a Marriage and Family Therapist and Affair Recovery Specialist, I am often asked why people have affairs.  There is no one size fits all answer to that question.  There are many different reasons people have affairs. The impact on the lives of those who practice infidelity is huge.  It violates … Read more

Once A Cheater Always A Cheater

Once A Cheater Always A Cheater.  This statement isn’t always true.  Some women whose husbands have cheated on them tend to think so.  As a Marriage Counselor working with couples for over 22 years I believe some infidelities are isolated incidents.  Men cheat for a variety of reasons.  Some are labeled as Philanderers.  These men … Read more

Infidelity Knows No Boundaries

Infidelity Knows No Boundaries.  It’s all over the news and media that Donald Trump intends to smear Hillary Clinton’s presidential campaign by dredging up her husband’s past infidelities while he doesn’t even have a clean slate when it comes to faithfulness in marriage.  As the information reads, Trump too has had an infidelity in the form … Read more

Marriages Can Survive Infidelity

Marriages Can Survive Infidelity.  Affairs can heal broken marriages and even reveal relationship dysfunction.  Renowned Author and Sex Therapist Tammy Nelson and respected Colleague provides a 3-step process for Recovering from Infidelity that I implement in working with my Couples in Marriage Counseling that is highly effective in helping them move forward.  As a Marriage … Read more

Affair Recovery

Affair Recovery.  My cheating spouse doesn’t understand that saying, “I’m sorry” just isn’t good enough.  Neither is saying, “I’m really sorry.” Finding out your partner is having an affair is probably the most devastating thing that could happen to you. Cheating shatters the core of your existence leaving you with feelings of rejection, mistrust, anger, … Read more

Ashley Madison Clients – Disclosure vs. Discovery

Ashley Madison Clients – Disclosure vs. Discovery.  With over 36 million users it was no surprise to me when during the past few weeks couples have come into my office with stress and anxiety due to the latest and ongoing Ashley Madison scandal hacks.  With more and more names being exposed recent clientele state they … Read more

What To Do When You’ve Been Caught Cheating

What To Do When You’ve Been Caught Cheating.  In working with couples in Affair Recovery I refer to the person who cheated as the Affair Partner and the person who was cheated on as the Hurt Partner.  As a Marriage Counselor I see couples whose affair has just been discovered or in other words they’ve … Read more

Is Your Partner Cheating?

Think your partner is cheating?  There are certain red flags that often signal a partner could be having an affair.  When your everyday predictable partner who spends most of his time in T-shirts and old jeans all of a sudden starts working out more and buys expensive fashionable outfits, red flags should go up.  Also … Read more

Would You Stay If Your Husband Cheats?

Would You Stay If Your Husband Cheats?  Finding out your husband has cheated on you is about the worst pain and heartache that comes from such a betrayal.  If you’ve ever been cheated on you know that feeling of devastation when you first find out as your heart starts to race, you experience difficulty in … Read more