Sex on the Beach Isn't just a Cocktail for my Couples

Why Some Women Wear Makeup

Why Some Women Wear Makeup.  Like my past blogs, entitled, “Why Some Women Wear Red Lipstick” and “Why Some Women Wear High Heels”, I’m sharing my perspective on why some women wear makeup, myself included.  Depending on how little girls were raised, wearing makeup can be encouraged or discouraged.  In my case, my mother didn’t … Read more

Do I Go To Cabo With My Husband Or My Boyfriend?

Do I Go To Cabo With My Husband Or My Boyfriend?  Choosing who to go on vacation with can be a difficult decision.  I am a married woman and a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.  I have been working with couples for over 23 years.  I specialize in Affair Recovery and developing New Monogamy agreements. … Read more

Developing A New Monogamy

Developing A New Monogamy.  So what exactly is a New Monogamy?  Monogamy is defined as the practice or state of being married to one person at a time or having a sexual relationship with only one partner.  Some literature on affair recovery suggests that infidelity is a symptom of some fundamental problem in a marriage … Read more

Is Non-Monogamy Infidelity?

Is Non-Monogamy Infidelity?  What is Infidelity?  Infidelity is the action of being unfaithful to a spouse or other sexual partner. When spouses find out about their partner’s infidelity they say it’s the worst feeling they’ve had to endure. When the infidelity is disclosed; meaning the person confesses, the feeling is devastating and surreal.  When the infidelity … Read more

Steps To Opening Up Your Marriage

Steps To Opening Up Your Marriage.  I came across this great article about what to know before asking your spouse for an open marriage (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/what-to-know-before-asking-your-spouse-for-an-open-marriage_us_56f17f5de4b084c67221a77b) I want to share the possibilities that tend to limit Couples’ fantasies about what could be a very satisfying outcome.  As a Marriage Counselor in private practice for the past 21 … Read more