A Process That Works For Neurodiverse Marriages. Working with neurodiverse marriages is not just my profession—it’s my personal journey. I am married to a man on the autism spectrum, so I understand firsthand the challenges and emotional struggles that can arise in a neurodiverse relationship. My experiences, combined with my professional expertise, allow me to offer not only practical tools but also genuine hope for a life that works.
A Process That Works For Neurodiverse Marriages
My Approach: The Six Tools from The Happy Neurodiverse Marriage
My work is guided by the six specific tools outlined in my book, The Happy Neurodiverse Marriage: Six Tools for Communication and Emotional Connection With Your Asperger Husband. These tools include:
- Check-In Tool: Establishes regular, structured communication to reduce misunderstandings.
- Perspectives Tool: Helps both partners share their viewpoints without judgment.
- Scales and Feelings Tool: Allows partners to quantify and express emotions clearly.
- Connection Tool: Builds emotional intimacy through intentional, guided interactions.
- Sex and Intimacy Tool: Offers practical guidance on improving physical and emotional intimacy.
- Moving Forward Plan: Creates a tailored strategy for addressing specific relationship challenges.
Comprehensive Support: 30-Page Handout of Tools
In addition to therapy/coaching sessions, I provide each couple with a 30-page handout of tools and strategies. This comprehensive resource covers all aspects of communication, conflict resolution, and intimacy. It serves as a go-to guide for navigating everyday challenges and answering common questions that arise in neurodiverse marriages.
Example: If you struggle with feeling heard, the handout includes specific exercises using the Scales and Feelings Tool to quantify emotions in a way your ASD partner can understand.
A Process That Works For Neurodiverse Marriages
Why My Method Works
I blend therapeutic techniques with real-life tools that are practical and effective. My goal is to empower both partners to communicate clearly, build empathy, and create a loving and supportive relationship.
If you are ready to transform your neurodiverse marriage, text me at (858) 735-1139 for information on how to start the process. I’m here to guide you every step of the way.
