Skip to contentBooks I use in my couples work:
Neurodiverse Marriages/ASD/Asperger’s
- The Happy Neurodiverse Marriage – Sarah Ruggera
- The Autism Couple’s Workbook, Second Edition – Maxine Aston
- Alone Together: Making an Asperger Marriage Work – Katrin Bentley
Couples/Marriage
- The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate by Gary Chapman
- The New Rules of Marriage: What You Need to Know to Make Love Work by Real, Terrence
- The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work : A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert by John M. Gottman, Nan Silver
- Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D.
Infidelity
- After the Affair by Janis Abrams Spring
- When You’re The One Who Cheats by Tammy Nelson
- State of Affairs by Ester Perel
- How Can I Forgive you? by Janis Abrams Spring’
- Private Lies by Frank Pittman
Sexual Issues
- The New Monogamy: Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity by Tammy Nelson
- Sexual Intelligence by Marty Klein
- The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy
Codependence and Recovery
- Facing Codependency by Pia Mellody
- Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself by Melody Beattie
- Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life by Henry Cloud and John Townsend
- Adult Children of Alcoholics by Janet G. Woititz
- Homecomming: Reclaiming and Championing Your Inner Child by John Bradshaw
- The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown
- Daring Greatly by Brene Brown
Women’s Issues
- Happy Me Happy We – Sarah Ruggera, LMFT
- You Are A Badass by Jen Sincero
- The Courage to Heal: A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse by E. Bass & L. Davis
- The Dance of Anger: A Woman’s Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships by Harriet Lerner
Men’s Issues
- I Don’t Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression by Terrence Real
- When Good Men Behave Badly: Change Your Behavior, Change Your Relationship by David B. Wexler
Parenting