Lucid Dreams Can Make Your Day. As a Marriage Counselor, I work with couples who want to enhance their relationship. I utilize many techniques within the field of psychotherapy to do just that. As every couple is different and has their own unique circumstances for moving forward I add other methods to this process. Incorporating fantasies or at least having a dialogue about a fantasy can make for very hot sex between you and your partner.
I’m entering my 20th year of marriage. I completed nine years of my first marriage. I have been working with couples for over 23 years. After the honeymoon period, relationships can become routine, and as some of my clients say….boring. As a married Marriage Counselor I understand relationships and the ebbs and flows we experience throughout the years. Because relationships can become mundane at times it doesn’t mean we stop loving our partners. Novelty tends to bring about interest and talking about situations that pertain to sex and fantasies is a sure fire way to ignite excitement. We all want to feel excited every now and then. It’s fun and keeps life interesting. It fuels us out of bed to go work and want to maintain our responsibilities.
Sharing fantasies is one tool that helps transform sexual relationships. The feelings that are generated through the discussion about fantasies or in this case dreams are magical. On 12/4/2017:
I had the most romantic lucid dream last night. I was walking around what appeared to be a hotel lobby. Went snooping around several floors not knowing what I’d find. Ended up seeing a friend who I have a deep crush on who was sleeping in an open area. He was on his stomach. He woke up, lifted his head and saw me staring at him. In my haste, I ran out of the area a little embarrassed and hide by a coffee/snack shop. He found me rather quickly. The cashier greeted him and obviously knew him. Asked him if he needed anything. As he moved toward me he picked me up in his arms and replied…..”no all I need is Sarah.” Then we locked eyes and had the most intimate open mouth kiss.
I woke up feeling happy and energized. I’m not a morning person so I was pretty nice to everyone in the household, including my Silky Terrier….LOL. That evening I shared my dream with my husband, who is the most understanding man. He smiled and said, “wow, that’s pretty good!” You can imagine what transpired that evening.
The point of the story is in healthy relationships sharing fantasies can generate sexual energy if done in the context of a helpful tool. There is a learning curve to understanding how to do this. For more information on how please contact me at (858) 735-1139.
Working with my couples, I hear stories about wanting to stretch their