Do You Know What You Want In A Partner? When your relationship is in trouble, it affects every part of your life. But it doesn’t mean you have to accept things as they are — or give up and walk away. Happy Me Happy We: Six Steps To Know Yourself So You Know What You Want In A Relationship is all you need to be in a healthy relationship.
Do You Know What You Want In A Partner?
When you think about what you want in a partner do you refer to a check off list you’ve created? Tall, dark, handsome? Makes good money, social, wants or doesn’t want children? How about independent, has a job, and has conflict resolution skills? I work with many women who have these types of lists. Many remain single because they are concentrating on others rather than themselves. Having a good sense of self will lead you to and attract the right person for you.
Happy Me Happy We helps people understand what they want and how to get it. Concentrating on yourself develops you ME. Without a good sense of ME, you may not be able to find the WE that best suits you. The world is full of all kinds of people we can love, but not all align well with your ME.
You can have a healthy, happy relationship. It starts with taking charge of your own thoughts and actions, and learning to be your own person. With a better understanding of self, a firm foundation of healthy communication skills, and the insight to make better choices, you’ll know how to interact positively with others. You’ll be able to create the healthy, loving, supportive relationship you know you deserve.
You may have all the qualities on that check list checked off but without understanding what it is you want you may be settling. You won’t stay in bad situations just because you don’t want to be alone, or because grieving the loss of the relationship is too hard.
Call me at (858) 735-1139 or visit my website CouplesCounselorSanDiego.com to get yourself grounded enough to know what you want for yourself so you know what you want in a partner.
